The Art of Listening

As a documentary filmmaker, my job for the last 15 years has been to listen to people. When I did my first interviews, I listened badly. I listened only for the answers I wanted and I tried to steer the conversation in a direction I expected. Needless to say, my interviewee was uncomfortable and I got bad results.

It is a beginner’s mistake, based on not trusting the creative process. What if I don’t ask the right questions and therefore can’t use the responses in my film? What if they say things that don’t fit my story? 

With time I realized that the most interesting responses were always the answers I didn’t expect.

When I started listening with curiosity and empathy, beautiful stories unfolded in front of me that touched my heart. I was interviewing everyday people, people who professed not to want to be interviewed, people I had just met on the street, men in barbershops and pride parades, along with corporate executives, politicians and artists.

I discovered, that no matter who I interviewed, my job was to listen.

In creating a documentary film, I had to work with the reality that I encountered, not the reality I wished to encounter.

The place of active listening is a sacred space. Whether you are listening to yourself, to others, to the environment around you, or to the world.

In Season 2 of my podcast, This Beautiful Shot is Not an Accident I interviewed artists and thinkers about how they use listening in their practices. 

As I prepare to launch Season 3 which is about artist’s first solo show, I am reflecting back on how much I enjoyed listening to the contributors of Season 2. I just created a post-season trailer. If you haven’t had a chance to listen to the podcast yet, check out this short trailer.

Contributors to Season 2 include:

And stay tuned for Season 3, launching at the end of March.

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